Psychic Graduation Party Disappoints!

It’s difficult enough making a change in your habits that brings on change in your neuronal pathways that strengthens the new behavior…and round again. Yes, it is difficult.

What makes it seem most unfair is what I call the “Graduation Party.” 22 years of helping people release themselves from the stuck places in their lives brought with it a certainty: graduating from a negative behavior does not look like a celebration.

It goes something like this. You have a pattern of staying silent when one person, the one who comes after you with…